A Mending of Two Families: Capturing a Unique Sand Ceremony at Pettibone Park
As a La Crosse wedding photographer, I’ve had the privilege of documenting countless weddings and various ceremonial traditions. From unity candles to wine box ceremonies, each ritual holds its own unique significance. However, the sand ceremony I witnessed at Pettibone Park stood out as particularly special and poignant.
This wedding was truly unique not just for its location but for the way the sand ceremony included children. Typically, these ceremonies are centered around the couple alone, symbolizing their union. But this time, the ceremony was a heartfelt representation of blending families, incorporating the couple’s children into the ritual. It was a touching reminder of the new family unit they were creating together.
The couple had graciously shared glimpses of their lives with me through social media. I’ve watched their family snowmen take shape, seen them hiking together, and enjoyed their playful moments of wrestling in the living room. It’s wonderful to witness such a vibrant, loving family dynamic, especially in La Crosse. What made this ceremony even more profound was that the groom’s bond with the bride’s son was deeply significant. Although he is not the boy’s biological father, his dedication and care were evident. This sand ceremony wasn’t just about uniting as a couple—it was about embracing a child as his own, committing to be a father figure in every sense.
This experience resonated deeply with me on a personal level. I’ve never met my biological father, but another man stepped in to raise me as his own. This gesture of love and responsibility profoundly shaped my life. Watching this couple’s commitment to their new family reminded me of the strength and beauty of chosen family bonds.
At Pettibone Park, the blend of scenic beauty and heartfelt rituals made this wedding a memorable occasion. From the heartfelt sand ceremony to the vibrant celebration at the Radisson, every moment was a testament to their love and commitment. Capturing these genuine, emotional moments reaffirmed why I cherish documenting such significant life events.
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