
Your engagement photos are not just a session—they’re the first chapter in visually documenting your life together. At Boxcar Photography, our goal is to create images you’ll cherish forever, reflecting your authentic love and unique connection. Here’s our style guide and best tips to help you prepare and enjoy every moment of your engagement shoot.
Why Preparation Matters
The secret to timeless and authentic photos lies in thoughtful preparation. The clothes you wear, the locations you choose, and the way you feel during your shoot all significantly impact the final images. Our guide helps ensure you look and feel your absolute best, resulting in photos you’ll treasure for generations.
Styling Tips for Engagement Photos
Wear Soft Colors
Soft colors help keep the focus on your love, creating a gentle and romantic feel. Muted tones also ensure your images remain timeless and elegant.
Choose Complementary Colors
Instead of matching exactly, pick colors that complement each other. This creates visual harmony and ensures your individuality shines through.
Keep Patterns Simple
Avoid loud or overly busy patterns as they can distract from your genuine moments. Opt for subtle textures or small patterns that enhance your look without overwhelming the images.
Accessorize Thoughtfully
Accessories and jewelry can elevate your outfits, adding a personal touch. Feel confident bringing pieces that reflect your style, including your sparkling engagement ring!
Dress for Comfort and Confidence
Choose clothes that you genuinely feel comfortable and confident in. If you feel good, it will translate beautifully in your images.
Plan for the Season and Location
Match your outfits to the setting and season. Flowing dresses look fantastic in natural settings, while casual attire works wonderfully for relaxed urban environments.
Bring Two Outfits
Consider bringing two outfit choices: one casual and one dressy. Starting with casual clothing helps ease initial nerves, while a dressier option provides variety and elegance, perfect for formal announcements or save-the-dates.
Professional Hair and Makeup
Investing in professional hair and makeup boosts your confidence and reduces stress on your shoot day. It also offers a trial run for your wedding day look, ensuring you feel stunning in front of the camera.
Prepping Your Fiancé
Not everyone feels naturally comfortable in front of the camera, and that’s okay! Help your partner relax by showing them examples of our work, explaining that our sessions involve minimal posing, focusing instead on natural interactions. Ensure they approve and feel comfortable in their chosen outfit.
Flatter Your Features
Every person has unique features they want to highlight or gently minimize. For instance:
- Arms: Consider three-quarter sleeves or a stylish jacket if you’re self-conscious about your arms.
- Legs: Heels elongate legs beautifully. Avoid peep-toe shoes if legs are a concern, as these tend to draw attention.
- Curves: A-line dresses and outfits that highlight your waist and upper body help create flattering silhouettes.
What to Avoid
- Bright colors (they can cause unflattering color casts)
- Overly matching outfits (complement each other instead)
- Cluttered patterns and small stripes (these can confuse the camera)
- Clothes you don’t feel confident wearing
Where to Shop
Great style doesn’t have to break the bank. Some budget-friendly options include:
- Old Navy
- Zara
- Gap
- Altar’d State
- Showpo
- Joyfolie
Packing List for Your Session
- Comfortable flats for moving between locations
- Second outfit (optional)
- Makeup for touch-ups
- Water bottle
- Jacket or cardigan for cooler weather
Capture Your Unique Love Story
Every session we photograph is unique because your love story is uniquely yours. Add mood through your choice of outfits and locations, bring options and accessories that showcase your personalities, and trust us to capture those perfect, spontaneous moments.
Ready to plan your unforgettable engagement session? Reach out directly at [email protected]—no question is too small. We’re here to ensure your photos authentically reflect your beautiful love story.
Let’s make it epic!


















